Philippians 4:5 "Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand."
As I look at this verse, I see several applications for the word,
moderation. It can mean mildness, gentleness, or being patient.
Ultimately it means to act appropriately in response to situations and
circumstances. The root meaning is to "superimpose" gentleness over
the reaction of anger. It means to superimpose mildness over giving a harsh
answer. We are to superimpose patience over wanting things done our way and in
our time. Yes, this verse of Scripture is hard doctrine, for you see, none of
those things come naturally to us. "LET" your patience be known.
"LET" your gentleness be seen and experienced. "LET" your
mild-mannered response be felt by those around you. I sure wish I could tell
you that I have mastered all these things. But, I can't say that because I
haven't. I type that sentence and I remember youth camp a few years ago. The
children were singing the song, "He's Still Working on Me." It began
as a little joke, but the reality set in. They were singing, "He's still
working on STEVE." That is the absolute truth. I'm still a work in
progress.
I think, for me, the hardest thing is superimposing patience over my
impatience. There are some things that I can be very patient about. I can be
very patient in those things that I absolutely know that I can't do without
God's help. But I have problems when it's something that I ought to be able to
do, like putting a bookshelf together. I find myself impatient when it doesn't
come together as easily as I thought. I want to do better. I want to be mild
and gentle while being patient, but I find myself muttering and grunting
a lot when I'm in a difficult position. How can I overcome this? How can I
prevent it from getting the best of me? Paul gives instructions and He gives
the solution. Let your moderation (patience, gentleness, mildness) be known
unto all men. That sounds good Paul, but HOW do I overcome myself? We can
overcome it by remembering that "The Lord is at hand." Yes, the
Lord is the solution, as He is in all matters. The Lord is with me always. Oh
yes, now I remember. We have already looked at the promise: "I will never
leave thee nor forsake thee." Now I remember, "God is our refuge
and strength, a very present help in trouble." (Psalm 46:1) Lord,
help me to rely upon you in all things.